There’s something so special about winter weddings; I love how brides create a cosy, festive vibe in the most subtle of ways. Today we’re at the unique venue of Dorset Museum and its beautiful Victorian interiors for the wedding of Holly and Tom. This was shot by no other than Love My Dress developer and Big Bouquet photographer Ian Davenport, so it’s very close to our hearts.
Please meet administration manager Tom and dance company general manager Holly, who wed on 27 November 2021. Their venue was Dorset Museum in Dorchester, Dorset, made personal with nods to the couple’s shared love of pubs, against a backdrop of winter greenery and dried flowers.
Photography Big Bouquet Photography
The Groom & Bridesmaids
Tom really wanted a textured brown suit, quite old fashioned with wintry and earthy tones. It was quite tough to find as we were shopping for it in the summer, but he was really pleased with his Moss Bros suit.
I was really happy with the texture and tone of the bridesmaid dresses from ASOS – a pinky-brown velvet. They wore their own shoes and gold hoop earrings.
The flowergirls were also in velvet, from Leila Rae via Etsy.
The Ceremony
We were due to have our wedding ceremony at the museum and our reception at a local village hall, but the roof of the hall collapsed around three months before our wedding day so we moved it all to the museum. It really worked out for the best; having the whole day at one location in the middle of Dorchester town centre made it easier for our guests and the museum venue was absolutely amazing.
The Victorian Hall at the museum is an incredible venue. It felt like a church without being a religious space, with a huge stained glass window at one end and an amazing mosaic floor. We really didn’t need to decorate it as it speaks for itself. It was large enough for eighty guests in the day and over 100 in the evening, with a great long hall to dance up and down. We really couldn’t recommend it enough.
I chose ‘The Countess Cathleen’ by Paul Anderson as my arrival track, as I used to dance to it when I was younger (in my Irish Dancing days).
Our ceremony was led by Richard from Dorset Registrar Office. It included two readings and a traditional Irish blessing. We had ‘After the Lunch’ by Wendy Cope. We chose this as a nod to our time in London. We’d often meet after work at Somerset House, crossing Waterloo Bridge together. We chose ‘What Goes With What’ by Nigel Slater as we love food and loved the analogy. My mum wanted to read an Irish blessing as it means a lot to the family. It has a lovely message.
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After being declared husband and wife, we walked back down the aisle together to ‘Praise You’ by Fatboy Slim – a nod to our Brighton home and always one to get everyone dancing.
My favourite part of the day was hands-down the ceremony, seeing everyone there that we loved and Tom at the front. I couldn’t stop smiling – I loved every moment.
Photography
Big Bouquet were absolutely brilliant and we couldn’t recommend them enough. The pre-wedding shoot was great and it made us feel much more comfortable in front of the camera. We’ve had so many people comment on our photos – they really captured the day.
The warm tone of the pictures really suit the wintry feel and they are something we’ll treasure forever.
Flowers
Jessie at West Dorset Wedding Flowers was amazing. Tom and I put together a Pinterest board of flowers we liked – mainly lots of greenery with heather and other warm pinks and purples. Jessie put together the most stunning bouquets for me and my bridesmaids. She also made buttonholes for the men; they featured a thistle and a partridge feather (as Tom’s second name is Partridge).
They looked beautiful against the brown suits. The flowers were so beautiful and we have dried the bouquets so we can keep them. We also had an incredible centrepiece and flowers for the aisle chairs – they were all fab. I 100% recommend Jessie to anyone getting married.
The Reception
Our inspiration was the pub! We both love going to old pubs, so that was a bit of a theme for us. We had scampi fries, bacon fries and pork scratchings for snacks and whiskey barrels for guests to stand around. Our table names were our nine favourite pubs, sketched by my dad (he’s an amazing artist). We had prints of them on our tables.
Getting married in winter, we also wanted some winter greenery in the space so a gardener friend collected lots of holly, ivy and other evergreens that we wove around the hall balcony. We also made some simple hoops (winding ivy and holly on florist hoops) to hang around the room, which really worked. For the centre pieces, we used dried flowers from friends’ gardens that we dried ourselves.
The hall was such a beautiful space that it didn’t really require much decoration. We added fresh greenery (holly and ivy) around the balconies and on the back wall, along with home-made hoops of greenery. We also had festoon lights and uplighters to add to the atmosphere. We borrowed some wooden crates from a friend who had recently got married and put photos of us in them and other props, such as Tom’s Manchester United kit from when he was young and my old Irish dancing shoes.
I designed our invitations, seating plan and order of the day on Canva. My dad made a lino print of a partridge perched on a holly leaf (as Partridge is Tom’s second name and I was born at Christmas), scanned it and that was our ‘logo’ for all the print materials.
My aunty is a bee keeper, so made everyone a mini pot of honey. We also gave all our guests a wooden Christmas decoration which had our ‘logo’ on.
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Credits & Thanks
Eleanor Crossland View all Eleanor’s articles
Ele lives in the Lincolnshire countryside, close to the beautiful coast. A qualified Pilates teacher, she loves fitness, yoga, Pilates and has a healthy addiction to baking, writing and travel.