Setting out to find your wedding dress for the first time can be a super fun, but let’s be honest, mildly overwhelming time. You might have the first clue where to start looking first, or you might love so many styles and designs that you find yourself unable to make any decisions. Or you might be struggling to find something that makes your heart flutter at all.
The time you spend finding your wedding dress is an opportunity for you to have some real, life affirming fun. When else can you indulge in spoiling yourself with access to such gorgeous fashion and fun shopping trips? We asked London bridal fashion designer, Rita Colson, to share some of her best advice for newly engaged brides – and we hope you find it helpful.
Long earrings and Décolletage
If your dress is strapless or a sweetheart neckline that exposes your décolletage, then skip the necklace and opt for an elegant pair of long earrings which will give you a fuss free sleek look. The skin and the décolletage are as much an accessory as a necklace.
Veils
The veil is the ultimate bridal accessory, the final touch. Whether you’re considering a glorious floor length cathedral style or a retro birdcage these are the things you’ll need to consider.
If your dress is lace or has a lot of embroidery, consider a simple veil with no embroidery details so it’s not causing any design clashes. If your dress has a low back with embroidery then a sheer, plain, ‘single tier’ veil would be ideal.
Consider your body type, if you have a petite frame then longer length veils such as a ‘waltz’ or cathedral will elongate your frame. If you’re a taller bride then mid-length styles, elbow or fingertip length veils would be better. Retro styles such as birdcage and bandeau work for all shapes and sizes. They can add a real element of style and elegance.
Hair combs and Fascinators
Decide your hairstyle before picking your accessory, whether you decide to have your hair up or down, straight or curly.
Some dresses are elevated by updos teamed with long earrings. I love to see a floral crown (fresh or dried flowers – some designers also create using porcelain, vintage reclaimed pieces, gold or silver) with a more bohemian style of dress. Also consider your hair type, small and dainty accessories are perfect for fine hair but may not work as well for thick waves or tightly coiled hair type. Above all make sure whatever you decide is secure whilst you move around.
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Less is more
Before you start buying accessories take note of the standout features, the style of your dress and base your decision around them. You don’t necessarily need a veil, tiara, earrings, and necklace all at the same time.
Accessories are key but one too many can be a distraction. In the words of the late, great Coco Chanel, “Once you’ve dressed, and before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take at least one thing off”.
Shoes
The most important accessory on this list I think are shoes. No outfit is complete without them, unless it’s a beach wedding!
Now before you reach out for the 5 inch stilettos, please remember you’re going to be standing on your feet for long periods of time. However, this doesn’t mean you have to compromise on style versus comfort.
Consider shoes with supporting straps on ankles and toes, avoid slip ons. Look for high quality materials or natural fibres. Be prepared to spend a bit more on your heels, if it’s good quality you can wear it again and again.
Top tip: best time to go shoe shopping is always at the end of the day, whilst your feet is a little swollen. This will test out the comfort levels of the shoe.
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Annabel is the founder of Love My Dress. She has a passion for photography, walking, yoga, nature, and loves to support talented artists and creative businesses. In 2013, she became a published author. Annabel lives in rural North Yorkshire with her husband and business partner Philip, their two daughters Eska and Leanora and menagerie of furry hounds. Annabel supports Philip in the running of the family flower farm at at Moonwind Flowers. She is also co-founder of What About Weddings.